Discplining your children has been a touchy subject. whether or not it is safe to physically discipline your kids. some people believe to keep there household in shape with an iron fist so to speak. Then others do not believe in physical discipline at all. the parents both have to have an agreement on there views of how to discipline there kids. If they dont agree on the same way to discipline kids it can effect them in some ways. you also have to be consistent with your ways of discipline. When the child does something wrong and say you take away there favorite toy, then when they do it again you cant let them get away with it. it will confuse them. you have to be smart while discipling your child you cant get overwelmed and get mad and then like snap you have to take a minute or two and collect yourself. then go back explain what they did wrong and then tell them why and what there punishment is.
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I totally agree Tom, many parents arn't on the same page when it comes to discipline and the kids then get confused leadsing them to do the things that there unsure of. The parents that discipline physically can harm there child if not done right and same with the un physically disciplined child. Because enven if your not physically hurting (spanking your child) which some call abuse, verbaly and emotionally you can be harming them with verbal words.
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I agree that parents need to be consistent with how they discipline their children. There are so many parents that will discipline a child one way, and then do something totally different the next time the child does the same thing. Parents also need to learn to be calm and listen to the kid’s side of the story as well.
ReplyDeleteI think discipline depends on the age of the child. If they are too young, then there is almost no way to discipline the child, besides showing them what they did wrong(ages 1-3). Telling a kid what they did wrong and making them sit in the"Naughty" corner doesnt always work for some children, i think at about 3-6, or atleast cognitiveness develops further, a child should be spanked, but then also explained what they did wrong, the child should also receive a fair warning BEFORE the spanking, if the child then doesnt respond, spanking should be used.
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